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Yammering men can be boring guys

For quite a long time it has been a fact, that women love to listen to their voices, they love to talk, and talk some more, while you sit there trying to make heads over tails of the story.

It is in their nature, women can talk a monk to sleep, and it is just a normal occurrence, nothing new in that, because if they don’t listen to themselves first, who is going to? If it happened that by avoiding talking one would be struck by a serious and strange illness, then I believe we would be running short of women very fast.

I am also reasoning that talking cannot be related to balding, or else women would be the first without any hair. For a long time, women have been complaining frequently about male/female communication. "Men don't communicate" ladies say in frustration.

Women complain that men give one-word answers, don't elaborate and tell the entire story in a play by play fashion, and that it feelings like "pulling teeth" to get information out of them.

But it becomes worrisome to come across a chatterbox brother, who the only time he closes his mouth is when he is hiding in the bedroom and the landlord is breathing fire and brimstone in the living room. Men, for ages, have always interested women.

Lately, my brothers, I have run into a category that likes to talk! Men with a sense of humor are irresistible, but then the repartees need to be pithy and effective. Men who talk too much are bad hygiene. When it comes to the dating game, all talk and no action cannot work.

Call this strait jacketed; somehow my image of the perfect man approximates my grandfather who never talked much, he was the traditional guy who does not display much emotion either. Sitting with a woman on a date and yammering all through dinner, dessert and nibbling on the toothpick is a bad idea brother, you need to review the contents spewing from your mouth.

What’s funny about this situation is that it’s quite the opposite of the rest of life. Overall, women talk way more than men. In fact, when men are asked what bugs them about women, most men say they talk too much………but some men out there want to change all this!!

After all every woman wants her man to be irrational sometimes and satisfy her vanity, and allow her to speak her trivial, rational and emotional self for a while without checks and counter arguments. Some men talk too much. They give their opinion on anything and everything, whether they were asked to or not. They live through their words rather than through their actions. We all know that jackass at the corner bar who's always telling stories that are fun to listen to.

The truth of the matter is that anyone with a mouth and usable vocal chords can talk to others. They can talk until they're blue in the face and say just about anything. They can claim to be the best, threaten you, or even talk trash about your mother.

They can tell the truth, lie, deceive, and spin tales that really don't amount to squat in most cases unless they can back up their talk with action. but if we stick to the male principal which has been passed down from generation to generation, then we as men should try to talk only when there is a reason to talk, if there isn’t, then for crying out loud, just shut up!

People respect a man of few words, and they are suspicious of a talkative man, therefore boys you should try your level best to uphold the culture, unless you……….anyway, let me leave it at that. Whoever said, “Women are talkative and men are lock-ative.” If this is not to-be then I say ``let wallets open rather than mouths.”

Maybe now they will listen!

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Author: Anthony Tambwe

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